Searching For Satisfaction

I’m The Object Of A Crush

Posted on: March 28, 2011

Remember those notes from back in the day? #nostalgia

I wasn’t gonna write about this at first but then I got dared, so…..

I’ve written before about having a crush, and even going out on a date with my Twitter crush, but I’ve never talked about being on the other side. To be honest, it’s been a minute since someone had a crush on me, at least a crush that I knew about. Last year one of my Twitter followers had a crush on me, and he wouldn’t tell me for the longest time. Instead he’d ask me questions & leave messages in my Formspring. Eventually he revealed his feelings, but also that he felt he wasn’t “ready” to deal with me quite yet, so I left it there.

The new crush is also from Twitter…what started from a convo about a shared love of Lucky Number Slevin morphed into the beginning of a new friendship. We’ve talked about a lot of things & so far he seems like a nice guy. I’m a little hesitant to dive in, I’m moreso interested in developing a friendship first. But it is very nice to be told nice things & have someone in your life that is really into you & not afraid to say it. 

It’s nice to be liked, desired, appreciated & admired. 🙂


5 Responses to "I’m The Object Of A Crush"

yes i know the feeling. for some reason women get real bold on twitter. not mad at it though. this one woman who went to school with me for 3 years told me out the blue (via dm) that she always had a crush on me. apprarently she had a boyfriend and i had a girlfriend the entire time she was here so it wouldn’t have worked out anyway.

also, my friend hits me up last night and says this chick he talks to has a friend who saw my twitter pic and was interested in getting to know me. at first i was like she didn’t even know anything about me and i wasn’t interested but after long thought (and seeing her pic) i was like “what the h*ell?”.

Yeah, I totally understand how you feel or at least what the guy feels, I’m going through a similar situation. I’m liking a chick I met through Twitter, she’s so awesome, dope, wonderful, beautiful, funny, smart, and etc. But my thing is, what’s the next move? Cause we don’t stay close to each other, that kinda throws a wrench in the plan. Do we talk forever? Go see each other? Just be friends? I don’t know how to approach the situation sometimes. If you got any thoughts to help me out, I’m open for suggestions.

Good luck.

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